Memories of the Wind.
Thursday, August 24, 2006
Please speak.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
Guys are alwiz handed the unfortunate label of being the most insensitive creatures in the world. Not that we wanted to, but thats the tag that has been affixed to us since day 1 of our life. It juz feel strange to talk about our feelings especially when we dun hold hands like gals do, we dun cry in cinemas even though we desperately need a tissue. We ar supposed to be the strong and indomitable sex. But i jus wanna say that we love our frenz even thou we neva say so, we ar willing to brave any danger for them even thou we may tease one another week in week out. wo jiang bah
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becuz of the surroundings that we grow up in, the culture that we are subjected to, every individual holds different values. Different people has different notion on wat is appropriate and wat is important to them. sometimes, due to differences, there would bound to be conflicts among frenz. To resolve them, we gotta talk about them before the problem escalates. So wadever it is, pls speak up. ni jiang la. I noe its hard to engage in a heart to heart talk for guys cuz we feel gay but gay betta den losing a fren la.
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Understandin a person involves a lot more den juz gg out tgt or knowing the person for years. One comic mentioned before that in order to understand a person, one muz first noe wat is the thing that the person hates most. This give a lot of indication towards what the person's values and principles are and wat he see as upmost importance. This can be done thr meticulous observation and when the person confides in u. ni jiang la.
...
A true fren is the one who holds ur hand and touches ur heart.
Guys are alwiz handed the unfortunate label of being the most insensitive creatures in the world. Not that we wanted to, but thats the tag that has been affixed to us since day 1 of our life. It juz feel strange to talk about our feelings especially when we dun hold hands like gals do, we dun cry in cinemas even though we desperately need a tissue. We ar supposed to be the strong and indomitable sex. But i jus wanna say that we love our frenz even thou we neva say so, we ar willing to brave any danger for them even thou we may tease one another week in week out. wo jiang bah
....
becuz of the surroundings that we grow up in, the culture that we are subjected to, every individual holds different values. Different people has different notion on wat is appropriate and wat is important to them. sometimes, due to differences, there would bound to be conflicts among frenz. To resolve them, we gotta talk about them before the problem escalates. So wadever it is, pls speak up. ni jiang la. I noe its hard to engage in a heart to heart talk for guys cuz we feel gay but gay betta den losing a fren la.
...
Understandin a person involves a lot more den juz gg out tgt or knowing the person for years. One comic mentioned before that in order to understand a person, one muz first noe wat is the thing that the person hates most. This give a lot of indication towards what the person's values and principles are and wat he see as upmost importance. This can be done thr meticulous observation and when the person confides in u. ni jiang la.
...
A true fren is the one who holds ur hand and touches ur heart.
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